FEELING LOST AND ALONE AFTER BETRAYAL?
BUILD A FUTURE
YOU CAN TRUST
If you're reading this, chances are you're going through one of the toughest experiences of your life. The shock and pain of infidelity can shake you to your core, leaving you with questions like, "How did this happen to me?" and "What do I do now?" Fulfilling relationship support is here. I'm Luke Shillings, your guide on this journey of healing and recovery.
Begin a journey to a more positive you after infidelity
Get rid of negative thoughts, emotions & words. Live a life without regrets & uncertainty.
PEOPLE WHO FEEL PARALYSED BY BETRAYAL:
THINK
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I can't believe they betrayed me
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I can't fix this
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I don't know what happens next
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I can't focus at work
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I thought we were a team
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I've failed
FEEL
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Resentment
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Tired
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Anger
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Frustration
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Undervalued
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Shame
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Fear
BEHAVE
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Snapping at the kids
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Complaining to friends
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Over drinking or over eating
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Little patience with myself or others
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Ignore problems and hope they just go away
RESULT
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Not spending quality time with friends or loved ones
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Struggling to communicate with my partner
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Not looking after myself
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Spiralling out of control
WHEN YOU HAVE A PLAN YOU CAN:
THINK
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I'm not defined by my actions
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I can fix anything!
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I'm so proud of my myself
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I always have my own back
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I've already won, lets continue the journey
FEEL
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Joy
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Confident
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Trusting
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Love
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Motivated
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Peaceful
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Forgiving
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Compassionate
BEHAVE
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Communicate with ease
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Laugh with friends
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Eat well and still enjoy a treat
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Be understanding and patient with others
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Overcome obstacles and thrive
RESULT
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Create a solid future for myself
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Let one chapter close and a new one to begin
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Put myself first, from which all my relationships will benefit
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Have clear boundaries and confidence in my relationships
Betrayed & broken? So were these people before we met...
Hi, I’m Luke, and we might just have a few things in common.
I'm a 40-something father of two, with passions that include running, tackling challenges, and bringing new ideas to life. Additionally, I guide others as a relationship coach and host a podcast, focusing on navigating the path to recovery after infidelity.
Life rarely goes as intended. Just a few years ago, I had a seemingly perfect marriage—content, in love, and raising a beautiful family. But everything changed when my wife cheated. I lost my home, no longer lived with my children, and the security of my job wasn’t what it was.
During this painful time, I deepened my existing interest in human psychology, searching for answers to questions like, ‘Why do people do what they do?’ I rebuilt my life, healing from the pain of infidelity and finding inner strength. Now, as a certified relationship coach, I'm dedicated to helping others on their recovery journeys.
Whether you're a betrayed partner seeking support, a spouse grappling with guilt, or someone rebuilding your life after infidelity, I provide a nonjudgmental space, practical tools, and powerful coaching. Together, we'll navigate emotions, rebuild trust, and create a future aligned with your values.
Take the first step towards reclaiming your life. Healing is possible, I'm living proof, and I’m here to support you.
Remember, you're not alone.
AFTER THE AFFAIR
PODCAST
The "After the Affair" podcast offers transformative insights and practical strategies for those dealing with the aftermath of infidelity. With compassion and empathy, it provides a safe space to explore emotions, rebuild trust, and support healing.
Thought provoking concepts, discussions and expert interviews, it aims to provide guidance on forgiveness, communication, and rebuilding intimacy. Join me in the latest episode
Here Is What Others Have Said
Don't just take my word for it –learn about those who've walked this path with me and let their journeys inspire your own. My clients' experiences speak volumes about the journey and transformation they've undergone.
“I fell into a dark place in my life when I found out my spouse of eight years was having an affair. I was lost, angry, vengeful; you name the emotion, I was going through it. I struggled with all these emotions going through my mind and didn`t know how to handle it. I stumbled on a podcast by Luke that offered a different perspective on an affair, so I thought to reach out to him; it was the best decision I ever made. In addition to helping me get unstuck from my funk, he helped me see things differently.
I left a much better person. Ironically, I now see the affair to be one of the best things that ever happened to me because it opened my eyes to lots of other things about me that I didn’t know about myself. Even though I chose not to stay in the relationship, I am happier, a much better father and co-parenting partner with my ex. I like Luke’s approach to coaching because it focused on my development as a person and not so much on the affair itself. If you want to learn skills to help you be at peace with yourself, seek out Luke”
REMI / USA
Recent Episodes
Certifications
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Professional Certified Coach - The Life Coach School
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CPD Life Coach - (Level 7 Diploma)
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QPR Gatekeeper Suicide Prevention Certificate
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Trauma-Informed Coach - The Centre for Healing
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